Work With Me
I help women and non-binary vulva owners find their pleasure and wildness.
Here’s who I work with —
Women
heterosexual, cis-gendered women
lesbian, queer, bisexual, trans and pansexual women, as well as any other sexual identities and choices.
It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation is, what your sexual practices are, what your relationship configuration is (e.g. single, monogamous, consenting-non-monogamous, polyamorous or any other choices) or whether you’re cis-gendered or trans, because our work together empowers and celebrates your sexuality, pleasure and wildness, independent of sexual orientation, sexual practices or relationship configuration.
Non-Binary vulva owners
gender non-binary or gender non-conforming people who are vulva owners, regardless of sexual orientation, sexual practices or relationship configuration - because our work together empowers and celebrates your sexuality, pleasure and wildness, independent of sexual orientation, sexual practices or relationship configuration.
I stand for profoundly respecting the body and listening to its deep wisdom.
If you know there’s more to your pleasure and wildness than you’ve been told… and if you’d like support in exploring, embracing and increasing your natural pleasure and wildness, I’d love to work with you.
My work respects the pace that the body wants to go at.
But wait… Sex and pleasure are all about fireworks and orgasms, right?
Of course, those are definitely some beautiful, awe-inspiring and jaw-dropping parts of them! AND they can also be about tending to whatever is present, whether pleasure or something else.
In our work together, I am deeply committed to being trauma-informed, respecting the consent of your body and going at the pace of your body. In my experience, this gives the best, deepest and longest-lasting results than if we were to rush the process.
When I say I’m ‘trauma-informed’, it means that I incorporate an understanding of trauma into the coaching process.
Being trauma-informed means that I am sensitive to how trauma may present itself during coaching.
My aim is to create a safer space for my clients. I welcome your full humanity - there is nothing ‘wrong’ with you, and you don’t have to ‘be fixed’. Every part of you is welcome here- exactly as they are.
Here’s how we can work together
In this 1-hour session, I’ll support you with whatever your current highest priority desire/goal is in sex and relationships, so you can start feeling the pleasure and intimacy you deserve.
This is a 12-session package that offers more extensive support, and is fully customised to your goals.
This is a 24-session package that offers an in-depth container of support, and is fully customised to your goals.
Here’s my Wild Pleasure™ Signature Framework that we’ll use in our work together —
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Being With
In our sessions, we’ll lead with ‘Being With’ the body, instead of ‘trying to fix’ anything. ‘Being with’ also means allowing everything that comes up, to come up. We don’t pathologize anything. Instead, we trust and respect the body, and welcome everything that comes up during the sessions. This helps the body, with its innate intelligence, release whatever might be blocking pleasure or intimacy.
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Accessing Safety (or ‘Safe-enoughness’)
Our sessions are designed to create a safer space for your body and nervous system, and never to overwhelm you. If you ever feel overwhelmed, you’ll be invited to access a ‘Resource’ (which is anything that is soothing, peaceful or even neutral) so that you’re able to bring yourself back to feeling present and grounded. Perceiving danger creates contraction in the body, which means a large amount of pleasure is not able to travel or flow through. A ‘safe enough’ space is paramount for increasing our ability to feel pleasure, as safe-enoughness allows the body to soften and fill up with more pleasure.
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Curiosity
Curiosity is a superpower! Curiosity helps us approach whatever arises in our sessions, non-judgmentally. It helps us explore what our unique desires are, regarding our pleasure. Curiosity is also about ‘unlearning’- Unlearning everything society/the patriarchy has taught us and being curious about what our own truth is- about relationships, sexuality, wildness, sexual power, sexual energy.
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Connection
This is about connecting to yourself, your desires, your erotic aliveness and the different mind/body parts that may arise during our session. It’s about intimacy, with yourself as well as with your partner(s) and/or lover(s). It’s also about developing connection and a loving relationship to your body and your sexual organs, through various pleasure practices. This helps us develop and strengthen our pleasure pathways, find our core desires and even find new ways of having pleasure!
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Autonomy
Autonomy is super important, not only in trauma healing but also for increased pleasure. Everything in our sessions is optional and your autonomy is always honoured. I celebrate your ‘No’ as I celebrate your ‘Yes’. You’re also invited to honour the autonomy of your body and sexual organs. Respect for your autonomy and consent creates a safe-enough space where your pleasure can flourish.
Pleasure is your birthright.
Feeling curious and want to explore working together? Here’s what that would look like —
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Book a free Clarity call
If you’d like to enquire about working together, feel free to contact me in order to book a free, no-obligation Clarity call.
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We chat on the Clarity Call
During this call, we’ll chat about your goals, you can ask me any queries and I’ll support you in making the best decision for you. I will be honest with you about whether we’re a good fit (respecting your boundaries is important to me - there are absolutely no pushy sales tactics here!). If I feel we’re not the right fit, then I’ll send over some free resources to help you on your way.
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If we’re the right fit, we decide to work together
If I genuinely believe we’re the right fit, and if it feels good for both of us, then we mutually decide to work together. I’ll walk you through the process of working together and give an overview of the session/coaching package.
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I send over an intake form and contract
In order to get to know your needs and goals better, I’ll send over an intake form that you can fill in and return to me. I’ll also send over a contract, so that we’re both on the same page and you know what to expect within the coaching container.
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We begin working together!
We schedule our sessions and start this amazing, profound, life-changing journey together!
I’d love to hear from you.
For a limited time, I’m offering a complimentary, pitch-free 60-minute coaching session as my gift to you.
If you’d love to book this, please let me know via the form below and I’ll be sure to get back to you soon.
